To the one who gave me life.

Yes, father day is approaching. No plans. We never have plans. Is it because father day to me is not significant enough?  Perhaps.

We cant choose our parents. So rather than blaming and complaining, I accept it.

We all have flaws, I do , so does my parents.

We do have times that we dont get along pretty well.

But for my father and I , I guess I gave up trying. Trying to build a loving and warm relationship , trying hard not to be disrespectful to each other.

Well it seems to be a natural caring and giving relationship that holds normal dad and daughter together , it seems more like a challenge to both of us. Its getting more and more tiring. We dont see to each other eyes. Sometimes its getting way to tense up, that I dont even bother trying to understand the core of matter / argument. Let it be.

Yes some things can be change , if you are willing to try. But what about things that cant change no matter how much you try ?

For example , people have allergies to certain food products. Its in them. No matter how much you try to treat it,  can you?  All you could do is to avoid the food that caused you to have allergy.

Its the same here. Yes behaviors, habits , personalities can be changed. What about someone's character?  Something that is already in him / her. You are someone who is very particular in manners and etiquette. Will you be able to accept someone who hurls vulgarities always?  Someone who is poorly lacking of social etiquette?  

So,  back to it. My father and I just dont get along well because of our differences. Huge differences. Something that I find it a chore to change and suit each other. He cant do it, neither can I.

Let it be.

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