Sunday, December 16, 2012

Extraordinary

Today feels inspirational.
I witnessed a very rare sight today.
Sitting at the far deserted corner of the cafe , I saw the chemistry shared by two individuals , who are both deaf and mute. I saw how they communicated and shared stories with one another. Initially , I was worried how the staff would communicate with them and they might probably give the staff a hard time. To my surprise , it was rather them who gave the staff assurance. They patiently flipped the pages and pointed to the staff what they wanted. After that , they continued to communicate enthusiastically with sign language. That image is vividly seared in my mind. Their natural in capability did not became their limitations and it never hinder them to live normal lives like how normal people do. To me , I felt that that was highly respectable and remarkable . I believe you would be as amazed and impacted as I was if you had witnessed that scene . I was quietly observing their key of communication. They smiled and made kind gestures to express thoughts which could not be expressed by words. Then again , I pondered how does it feels to live a life like theirs. I imagined how helpless and curious I would be if I were brought to this world to be deprived of my fundamental abilities . I could not hear beautiful melodies and the sound of music . I could not speak , sing and even express myself like how others do. It feels scary and daunting . Hence , this makes the lives of theirs more encouraging to others.
And I learnt something today. :)

Friday, December 7, 2012

About me

I am back , once again ! I am really busy this week . Just came back from Malaysia after attending cousin's wedding. Tried Pedicure for the first time and i really loved the drawings the ladyboss did for me ! I paid the RM30 very willingly because the service was really good . It's been days and nothing fades , yet . Did my hair for the wedding and it looks like ...3 big and black caterpillars . Went to Ktv again and i had went to sing karaoke for consecutive two days . But i like it . Yes i love to sing . ^-^
Anyways ,  It's good to meet up with my dearest sisters and to know that we are all doing well , I hope. When I was young , I loved December the most. I waited and anticipated the arrival of this month because I can't wait to meet my cousins in Malaysia. I hate to return to singapore because I knew that I would only be able to see them again after another dreadful year . I once asked my mum why didn't she decide to stay in Malaysia. Why wasn't I born there ? I was very close to my cousins , even closer than best friends , even though we only get to see each other once a year. I am really thankful for this , good relationship and kinship doesn't come easy. I am thankful to know that I have people to call my ' Family '.
As we grow up , our thoughts and perspectives change . We find our outlooks in life experiencing a change , too. We began to discover and realize things that are important to us , things that we want to achieve and accomplish. Meeting up is important but not that looked forward to as compared to the olden days . As we move on , we might be progressing into another phase of life. Some of my cousins are having steady and happy relationships with their partners.  Honestly , I am really happy for them because I know they have found their happiness. However , I am also equally aware that we might have lesser time to spend with each other as they settle down and look into marriage blablabla. Anyways , this is life. Eventually , we find that we all have a life to live . Face it , there are times when you need to face the world alone . :)
Got to know a few people this week . I am grateful that i met really good people and we can hit off pretty well. But there are also unfriendly ones who never fails to chat and laugh with everyone else and shows me a black face . -.- Fine it's up to you anyways and i can live without an uncle as a friend , seriously .
  

This post is getting boring without pictures so i posted one picture of my loots .. from online . Shall catch some sleep now . In case if you are wondering why are there different paragraphs illustrating different moods , It's actually because i have typed them in separate days using my phone , and compile them together today .