Love

Relationship. Crushes . Love.

Honestly , I think we are still rather not too mature for this (people around my age) . Yes 16 is not too young though, but i guess people around this age are still unable to be committed to such a huge responsibility. Its not that I am skeptical about steady relationships around my age . I had a fair share of learning from all these few years back. Of course you will learn to love someone more, or probably be more insightful in managing relationships with the opposite sex . Still, I feel that it is not really an appropriate period of our life to be entangled with all these relationship stuffs.

Why? 

We are still growing up. Our mindset of relationship is just "loving each other " . As long as you love me and so far as I love you, we can work out. When you are around my age, or probably even younger, do you even ponder so much before getting into a relationship? Some of us just feel like getting into one because all others are into it. Its like, " hey cmon, its cool and its a trend now, I must try it " . You just want to have someone who can text you 24/7. You just want to have someone to be called your " stead " . Because its cool.

What do we look for in relationship?

Undoubtedly, most of it are looks and probably personality. Do we look further than that? Do we consider how our future is gonna be like when we are with him/her?

Often, our age reflect our slight disability to discern the relevance of certain issues in relationships. In fact, some of us just spend way too much time in a relationship and neglect all others that are around us . As said, its about commitment and responsibility. Can you really have a fruitful relationship with the opposite sex when you are truely lacking of experience ? All that we engage in is puppy love. They get together. They break. They got upset. They got over being upset. And they got into a new relationship again. Its just like a cycle. I mean, it is. Unless you have decided to leave this important thing to a later part of your life. I know it may seem interesting.  Many get into relationship because of curiosity.

We seldom consider the repercussions that we might suffer when we get into relationships at such a young age.

Heartbreaks. There is definitely heartbreak during an end of r/s. It might be due to betrayal , lack of commitment and loyalty . Whatever it is, you got hurt. And your perception towards relationship changes and you start to realise it isin't that beautiful after all. I did. And you start assuming that all guys are jerks / all girls are bitches just because you didnt work out with one guy/girl in the whole wide world. Its not ridiculous to have this thinking though. Such experiences are really daunting and it discourage you from getting into serious relationship in the future just because the one in your teenage year didn't work.

Both genders at this age are still not mature enough to handle some r/s problems. We are still struggling to treat people right, and now we are talking about true love.

Ok I think I am having a rather negative view towards young relationships NOW . But in all I still can conclude I am quite neutral. I dont really discourage people from getting into first relationship ! Not too much about the fun , but yes YOLO. Some things ought to be tried out when you are younger. I'd rather regret doing it than regret not doing it. BUT, there is a fine line between bgr and personal relations with all others and studies . Dont sink too deep into it and get all the heartbreaks that shouldnt be a part of your teenage years .  Learn as you love, because such things wouldn't last forever. You wouldn't be young forever.

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Tuesday

Went for appointment today.  Though it did not turn out to be what I wished for, but im still grateful... Originally had to take full course of medication for one month. And now I am only required to take those medication for 3 weeks. Honestly I couldn't ask for more because i know its impossible for it to go away within a week , provided that there are no side effects ...

Though it makes me feel guilty and really upset for the past few days, I had to be thankful because it could have been worst.

Lastly, I am really thankful to my friends who really listened to me. And people around me who really put up with my frustration. :( .

Sorry for being so annoying but im blessed to have you all. ;) .

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Health is really important. In fact , it is much more important than wealth. You can't enjoy your wealth if your health is adversely affected. And you will realise that you will be spending all your wealth on your health. I am sure no one wants to live like this. Therefore its clear that we should pay attention to our health, and not overlook it in the midst of our busy lives.

We often neglect our health because we feel that there are other things which we deem as more important than health.

An occasional maggie mee meal becomes a frequent fuel . Junk food triumphs over conventional healthy meals because of its convenience , and its taste of course. A weekly run becomes a monthly run because you just cant afford to skip algebra trigo geometry bzhusaoehsjcbm problem sums. And we often tell ourselves that we will fulfil those things after our most "important" things are done.

Our body is a complex system made up of.... (google yourself). Honestly I was quite fascinated to learn about how the human body worked when I took biology. Sometimes I really wonder who strung all those complex mechanisms of organs and tissues together. Hmm...

Well back to it. Before we realise, our health suffers. And it is often when we are sick and ill, then we begin to acknowledge the importance of healthy lifestyle.

Regular physical exercise. Well balanced diet. It might be hard to follow all these but we sure must to enjoy greater joy that our lives bring us. As said, an ill person cant be a happy person, as hard as he might try to be.

I was quilty of having spent not a small amount of money seeing the doctors. That wasn't the worst part . Dont wish to dwell too much here . However , I really hope that someday when I visit this blog again , this post will serve as a reminder and hopefully, it will be ingrained in me. Probably I would not even fall sick if I had listened to advices. Perhaps I wont even have to waste my parents' money if I have took a more cautious effort to take care of myself. Honestly I hate seeing the doctor. I dont detest the doctors . I just dislike trips to clinics . I supposed no one likes them too.

So anyways , please remember to spend some time to take care of yourself. Believe me , a healthy body is the most fortunate blessing anyone can have.

Health cant be compromised. :) .

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Fairness

Fairness.

How many issues can you think of when you see this word ?

Nothing is really fair in this world. However, it wouldn't be thrilling and fun to live in a world without unfairness. Can you imagine what would be expected of mankind if everyone is offered the same opportunity? Undoubtedly, we will all be living in a non-competitive society. No one seeks to fight and thrive to achieve their goals, and indirectly, to be better than others.

Injustice causes unhappines , anger and frustration. 

Its really heart wrenching when you come to realise what woman are going through in other countries. Its does make me feel angry and helpless too. Just a few weeks ago I read an article  about women in a particular country who work as prostitutes . Yes they dont like a job like this , in fact nobody does , but most of them are left with no choice. What to do when you have so many mouths to account for? And they knew that that was the only way to survive. Some women even work almost 10 times a day just to buy plenty amount of food to feed their families. No I really cant imagine the pain and sorrow they are going through. I cant even....

Its unfair. Why do women in these countries have to suffer and do something that they dont even like? Shouldn't it be more justified? Shouldn't a job be at least one that makes a person feel satisfied with what he or she is doing ? Isint a work field a place for an individual to demonstrate her capability and in the process, enjoys what she is doing ?

So... why ??? Just like people who solicit sex everywhere in the world, but my heart goes out more to those women in these countries. I mean, why is it even regarded as a profession when it Isint something anyone wants to be recognised for. Of course, there are all types of people in the world. You can easily find people with all types of jobs in this ever changing world. Somehow, someday we will just get used to hearing the plight of these women in those countries . We are all getting colder. People's mindset are keenly attuned to this modern life that we are living. That is - you cant survive if you cant prove your worth in this current society. So you just have to sacrifice your body to continue living in this cold world. Its really heartbreaking to see this coming.

Some women in developing countries are suffering from even worst circumstances. Again I read that almost 40 plus women are raped daily in some countries. Women are so vulnerable in these countries. They have no rights and say , and they are not even given the least amount of respect to live as a human being. Their rights are violated. No one stands up for them because getting raped to them is becoming a norm. They cant protect themselves and there are no laws to justify for them. It is just a recurring problem that no one seeks to rectify to give the future generations of women greater hopes. Or simply , to at least not let them be deprived of their basic rights. 

Talking about outraging of women's modesty , those men are incorrigible. Bastards. Can you even imagine how you have ruined someone's life just to satisfy your own pleasure? You took the advantage that we girls are not as physically strong as you bastard and happily commit those crimes and walk away without feeling a tinge of guilt. Bastards you all dont belong to this world. Why wont someone implement a law that says like this : "Any men found guilty of rapping or attempting to rape any female will be castrated without further compromises. "

I think I got really agitated typing this. Hahaha. Bye !

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